Classic Neckwear – The Black Bow Tie

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The formal bow tie is not just black tie’s namesake but also its pièce de résistance as it embodies the formality and elegance of the entire tuxedo ensemble. When a tuxedo-clad gentleman enters a room, it is the black bow shape framed against a crisp, white shirt that immediately sets his attire apart from a simple dark suit. In the dinner suit’s heyday, formal bow ties were available in an almost infinite variety of shapes and sizes.

Generally, the ready-to-wear options used to be much more limited and many of the classic variations that used to necessitate the services of a custom tailor can now be found at our online shop with probably the largest selection of quality sized self tie silk black bow ties anywhere in the world.

Black Single End Bow Tie in Silk Moire Butterfly Self Tie - Fort Belvedere
An extremely rare Black Self Tie Single-End Bow Tie in Silk Moire Butterfly from Fort Belvedere

The Classics: Butterfly & Batwing

The butterfly bow tie is probably the most classic version, followed by the large butterfly bow tie, followed by the batwing bow tie. Take a look at all three of them.

Black Bow Tie in Silk Satin Sized Butterfly Self Tie from Fort Belvedere
Likely the most classic black bow tie of all time: The Black Bow Tie in Silk Satin from Fort Belvedere

Self-Tied Always Superior to Pre-Tied Bow Ties

The choice of bow tie model separates the men from the boys – and the gentlemen from the waiters. Wearing a pre-tied bow tie to a formal function is the sartorial equivalent of using training wheels at the Tour de France.

Chris Evans with pre-tied bow tie
Chris Evans with a pre-tied bow tie; note how it dangles down a bit and is too symmetrical. We suggest avoiding this style at all costs

The decision to avoid self-tie models is invariably based on ignorance rather than experience as most men have no idea that the process is virtually identical to tying a simple shoelace bow. Anxiety over a flawed result may also be a contributing factor. However, the fact is that a slightly asymmetrical hand-tied bow adds a unique flair to each man’s ensemble.

Black Bow Tie in Silk Satin Sized Butterfly Self Tie from Fort Belvedere
Sized black self-tie Butterfly Bow Tie in Silk Satin from Fort Belvedere

Also pre-tied bow ties often angle away from the face and because they are stiff, unlike a self-tie bow tie, it gives itself away very easily.

Back Strap of Black Silk Satin Bow Tie
Back Strap of a sized Black Silk Satin Bow Tie; note the clean appearance, as no clasp is visible

Fixed Size & Adjustable Bow Ties: Finding the Right Fit

Adjustable black bow ties are the norm nowadays because it allows retailers to save on stocking costs. Sized bow ties are always preferable because the  width of the finished bow will be directly proportioned to a specific neck size as opposed to the one-size-fits-all bow which is expected to accommodate necks ranging from fourteen to eighteen inches in circumference. And because the fitted models are made from a single piece of material, their exposed bands forego the excess fabric and unsightly clasps characteristic of the adjustable versions – a particularly important factor for gentlemen with a preference for wing collar shirts.

Because it was so difficult to find proper, sized evening black bow ties, Sven Raphael Schneider designed a range of high-quality black bow ties made of the finest Italian silk. All are exclusively self-tie and properly sized. You can see all of them in our shop here.

You want to avoid adjustable bow ties as they have more material and clasps
You want to avoid adjustable bow ties as they have more material and clasps, inflating costs and the silhouette of your bow tie

Which bow tie will suit you best? Watch our video to find out

Overview of Classic Bow Tie Styles

The following are the most common styles of bow ties.

NameBow ShapeTie ShapeTie Width
Classic “Butterfly”Classic large or Big butterfly Butterfly tie shape 3″ to 3½”
Modern “Butterfly”
or “thistle”
(classic “semi-butterfly”)
black_bow_tie_in_silk_satinThistle tie shape 2¼” to 2¾”
Batwing
(classic “straight-end” or “club”)
Black Batwing Bow Tie Silk faille Grosgrain Self_tie fixed Necksize - Fort BelvedereBatwing tie shape 1½” to 2″
 “Pointed”black_self-tie_bow_tie_in_silk_satin_sized_with_pointed_ends_-_fort_belvedere_w A butterfly or batwing design can have pointed ends for a unique and classic effect.

The bow tie shape is a matter of personal preference although one should consider a few things:

  1. A beard or beard stubble will catch on the bow tie and pull threads, so a smaller shape is preferable.
  2. A bow tie that is too big is reminiscent of the style of the 1970s and can appear dated.
  3. Conversely, a bow tie that is very slim looks is reminiscent of the 1960s and could also appear dated.
  4. The most classic shape is the 2.75″ Butterfly that was popularized in the 1930s. It will make the wearer look debonair, and never outdated, as the style has clearly stood the test of time.
  5. With a peaked lapel, pointed-end bow ties coordinate nicely with the angularity of peaked lapel jackets and wing-collar shirts.
  6. The dotted lines in the pictures shown on the patterns indicate where the tie blades (ends) are folded to create the bow shape. In the case of pointed ties, the two points are achieved when the pointed tip of one blade extends beyond the square fold of the overlapping blade. (See Tying a Bow Tie for complete details regarding the tying process.)

The Single End Bow Tie

The single-end bow tie was popular with elegant gentlemen during the heyday of classic men’s clothing in the roaring 1930s. It never has pointed ends and is usually a butterfly shape.

Black Bow Tie in Silk Satin and White Carnation Silk Boutonniere Fort Belvedere
Front of Single End Black Bow Tie in Silk Satin it provides a very clean look and silhouette that is very refined and absolutely unique

Determining Your Proper Bow Tie Size

While the bow tie shape may be open to interpretation, the tie’s size must follow certain guidelines to ensure a handsome proportion.

Originally the rule of thumb was that the outer edges of the bow never extended beyond the edges of the collar. However, since wing collars are now much smaller than they were, it is safer to use Alan Flusser’s rule that the finished bow should fall somewhere between the width of the wearer’s face and the outer edges of his eyes.

In terms of tie width (i.e. the vertical measurement of the tie blades), these tend to vary by bow style as well as by current fashions. The sizes used in the chart above are a good starting point but by no means absolute. In general, wider ties work well with higher collars as they prevent the bow from becoming insignificant in comparison.

If you want the golden middle opt for 2.75″ in height. It will always be timelessly classic and debonair.

Classic Black Bow Tie Fabrics

Color: Black

The term “black tie” says it all. When it comes to neckwear for classic tuxedos the only color you need is black. Even if your tuxedo or dinner jacket is tailored of a midnight blue fabric, the lapel facings will always be black and you want to match that color with your bow tie. Any other hue runs the risk of branding you as a 1980s prom date or wedding usher.

Material: Silk

Like the jacket lapels, a quality bow tie will always be constructed of pure silk. Maybe cotton blends are the permissible in case of velvet, as pure silk velvet is no longer produced.

The texture of the bowtie is governed by the lapel facing of the dinner jacket. A silk satin lapel calls for a satin bow tie while faille or grosgrain facings require a ribbed or textured finish such as barathea or wide rib grosgrain or something else. For an overview of all of your weave options, please take a look here.

For a double-breasted dinner jacket or one made of velvet a black velvet bow tie looks very handsome.

Black silk velvet butterfly bow tie self tie single end handmade in england by fort belvedere
Black silk velvet butterfly bow tie self-tie single end handmade in England by Fort Belvedere

Bow Tie Placement

When worn with wing collars, bow ties are placed in front of the wings. This positioning is not only proper etiquette but also a practical choice as the collar’s wings will help to keep the bow in place by pressing it forward.

Black Bow Tie in Silk Barathea Sized Butterfly Self Tie and Cummerband in Black Silk Barathea
Black Bow Tie in Silk Barathea Sized Butterfly Self Tie in front of the shirt collar wings and Cummerband in Black Silk Barathea

Tying a Bow Tie

Pre-tied bow ties might look cute on little boys but a grown man should know how to tie his own neckwear. Watch the following video to learn how with simple, step-by-step instructions

Bow Ties of a Different Color? Watch Out

Maroon barathea bow tie
Maroon barathea bow tie

Considering that the dress code is called “Black Tie,” you will be best served limiting yourself to black bow ties. That being said, deep jewel tones can be worn. Just watch out, as while a maroon bow tie can be worn with a white dinner jacket, for instance, it comes with great risk of being mistaken for the wait staff.

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